Real dating format

Listed: 13 September 2024 0 h 24 min

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Option 1: More direct and concise

“Hello Sir,

Harry Marteau. Nice to meet you. Interested in a more personal exchange, I suggest we continue the conversation by SMS at +33 ***** or by email at l***********@gmail.com.

See you soon, Harry Marteau”

Option 2: Warmer and more personalized

“Hello,

I am Harry Marteau. New member, I am delighted to discover your profile. I would very much like to learn more about you. Would you be interested in an exchange by SMS or email?

Do not hesitate to contact me: Phone: +33 ***** Email: l************@gmail.com

My pleasure, Harry Marteau”

Option 3: More formal and professional

“Hello Sir,

Harry Marteau. I am contacting you following the discovery of your profile. Interested in a meeting, I suggest continuing this exchange by telephone or electronically.

My contact details: Telephone: +33 ***** Email: l***********@gmail.com

Sincerely, Harry Marteau »

Option 4: More formal

Hello,

I am registering on this site in order to meet a man for a serious relationship based on trust, complicity and love. As for me, I am dynamic, open, like to laugh, faithful, tender … but I am not going to tell you everything. Otherwise, I like going out and chatting with friends, discovering new things, playing sports and many other things that are up to you to discover!!! I hope this arouses your curiosity.

See you soon …

Hi there!

I just saw your profile, I like it a lot, which is why I am sending you this message. I am writing to you so that I can get to know each other. That’s what we are here for, right? As I just told you, I would like to get to know each other, so if that’s also your case, I hope you don’t mind.

I hope to hear from you soon.

First of all, I am looking to expand my circle of friends and you never know, maybe one day or another I will meet my soul mate in order to build something solid and serious, finally a long-term relationship.

Already married or open relationship?
Is the Internet a good place for your type of research?

For my part, the Internet is not the right place for my type of research, because I am not a fan of long-distance relationships, but on the other hand, talking to someone miles away allows me to keep my head on my shoulders because I do not feel self-conscious like when I am in front of the person, and ideas come here and there, finally we can express ourselves better …

Have you already met people or was it just for fun?

And did you benefit from these meetings?

But until now I suppose you have not found the right person for you?

How long have you been single now?

How long did your last relationship last?

Could I know the reason for your separation, without wanting to be indiscreet, and if only you want to talk about it!

But being single again, has allowed you to really become aware of your life?

If you ever met your soulmate, could it lead to marriage?

What kind of partner are you looking for?

Very well, As far as I’m concerned, preference doesn’t matter, I’m looking for a serious, sincere, romantic partner, who is both conscientious and determined, decisive, sociable, caring, warm, and who knows how to take charge.

What is the ideal woman for you?

I’m not looking for Prince Charming or the knight in shining armour as we often see in movies, but I’m looking for someone who first of all has their feet on the ground and their head on their shoulders, who has a fairly great acquisition of maturity, and a fairly great notion of life.

Someone who can be trusted, and be a good listener when spoken to, who respects women, I am not asking to worship them, but mutual respect, because women are not toys or objects contrary to what other men think.

Before you get involved in a romantic relationship, are you the type to think for yourself, or to talk about it to those around you?

I think for myself, without telling those around me, it’s my life, and no one will come and do things for me.

Have you ever been wrong about someone on the internet, whom you trusted?

When you meet someone you like, what is your first reaction, and what do you do?

The most important thing at the beginning is that I feel good with this person, the rest will come later!

Do you often suddenly fall in love with someone via the internet, or has it already happened to you?

I wouldn’t say no, but it’s up to you to decide because I think that it’s already the basis of a relationship, I’m not against saying that suddenly falling in love with someone on the internet is something unreal, but talking on Whatsap, Facebook, and so on, allows you to get closer so as not to be shy during the long-awaited meeting, but feelings are confessed face to face …

In another case yes, if beforehand, you suit each other, finally the same interests, points in common, etc … I think it could work!

How do you imagine love?

I imagine it in 3D, no I’m kidding, for me love must be passionate, like a fairy tale, without confusion, or headache …

I am rather realistic in love, when something worries me, well I let it be known automatically.

Do you have an idea about the perfect life as a couple?

The perfect life as a couple, I don’t think it could exist, because for a perfect serious relationship, you need two perfect people, I don’t think it can exist, but both partners have to give their all, finally each one has to put in their own effort, that is to say make long-term plans, invest more, engage in activities together, make decisions together and so on!

Are there characteristics that friends would use most often to describe you?

Some say that I am independent, self-confident, sociable, generous because I have a sense of sharing, disciplined, conciliatory, but all these qualities do not make me the most perfect, even less a saint, I also have my little flaws, and sometimes I slip up without meaning to!

What do you do in your free time?

I love having a good time reading a good book or a novel, I often surf the internet when I’m bored, I love meditating, and I often snack, it’s my guilty pleasure…

What are your hobbies?

My hobbies are charitable activities, cars, walks, DIY, cinema, dancing, decorating, drawing, museum exhibitions, fitness, internet, gardening, online games, hookah, art, reading, going out, music, painting, photography, watching sports, restaurants, relaxing, shopping, TV, theater, crafts, traveling, etc.

I admit that I am sick

If you had to expect something from your soul mate, what would you expect, well the question remains a little difficult, but to be more explicit, what should she do for you, so that you are satisfied?

I rather need him to bring me a reassuring calm, to support me in the good and the bad times, that there reigns a great complicity between us, harmony, understanding, etc …

When you meet a woman for the first time, what is the part that attracts you the most, finally what you look at first?

I look at his eyes!

Tell me a little more about yourself, I want to know you, your character, your way of life, etc …

I am attentive, friendly, serious in everything I undertake and do, I try to live in the simplest way, I am not resentful because I know that if the wheel takes time to turn, it will turn sooner or later, I do not like to wait, for example when I am made to wait in a place for hours, and no one in sight, I could never forgive that, I would not say that I am jealous, but only trust in my partner will help me stabilize my jealousy, I love to show charity, I do not like violence, I do not walk on my words either, I have to tell you, when someone hurts me or says something hurtful to me, I answer them immediately because I tend to act on the spot, not after …

If you could choose between 2 partners, which one would it be?

I would choose the most down-to-earth, calm, balanced person

What are your qualities?

I am adorable, I tend to lighten the atmosphere when there is a headache around, I am tidy, but not manic only that I do not like disorder, I do not like to make someone uncomfortable because then I am, but hey you will get to know me better over time!

What can you boast about your personality?

Do you smoke? Do you drink?

Is it easy to trust someone you have just met?

Putting or granting trust in someone is something very difficult, I wouldn’t say that I quickly grant my trust in someone, but as we talk, I feel this little something that binds us, so giving my trust would only be a matter of time…

I don’t have a lot of life experience, but I don’t know much either, loving someone by accident happens, but I wouldn’t want to give the little love I have left to someone who isn’t worth it, so I’m holding back.

I’m looking for someone who can love me and at the same time give me advice, because no one is perfect here below…

Do you live alone? Do you have children?

Do you have family with you, or rather relatives I would say?

Is there a story that has marked you the most in your life?

The only event that has turned my life upside down is the disappearance of my parents, well it was more than difficult for me!

I lived my adolescence partly with my grandmother to whom I owe everything on earth, since when I was 15 I lost my mother who left during her second childbirth, neither of them survived, I would have had a little brother, but God decided otherwise, and my father who was not at home all the time was not every day on Mardi Gras, so not being able to bear the disappearance of my mother he also left later!

So I was educated partly by my grandmother to whom I owe everything on earth, that’s basically the summary of my little life.

Anyway, let’s change the subject I don’t want to burst into tears!

Do you do sports?

I play tennis, I jog a bit often, a bit of martial arts, swimming, one of my great passions, because I love water a lot, you have to take advantage of the benefits of nature, sometimes a bit of golf, a bit of fitness, cycling, skiing, etc.

I would like to tackle a somewhat delicate and sensitive subject, but I hope you will feel in your best interest!

What does love mean to you?

They say that love costs nothing, but why do some men make fun of women? Tell me, you who are a man, I think you are the best placed to answer!

Most men are wary of women who are on the internet, well let me tell you that there are fakes of course, and many other pirates on the internet but when you trust the person you are talking to, only trust can help you keep your feet on the ground, love is something sacred, gestures also count, but don’t mean that only money interests the women in question! We also have our pride, but when a woman makes the effort to lower herself in front of a man, it’s because she needs it the most, but some even go so far as to say really unpleasant things to them, I know what I’m talking about, I experienced that with my ex, when things weren’t going very well at the time…

So if you really think you love her, I wouldn’t say that it’s your duty to necessarily help her, but the minimum counts, finally the gesture…

Can the age difference between you and a girl be a problem?

Do you like music?

What is your musical style?

I’m more of a listener of everything, but I have a penchant for old music, because it allows me to keep my feet on the ground and stay zen!

Do you have any particular favorite genres?

I’m more into Jazz, rock, zouk, reggae, pop, soul, rnb, film music, etc…

Otherwise, do you have any favorite artists?

Michael Jackson, Whitney Houston, Adele, Claude Barzotti, Johnny Haliday, and many others…

Do you like cinema?

There is nothing better than cinema for me, it is another dimension of life but more instructive according to my conception of the thing …

And what are your genres in terms of films?

Adventure, Bollywood, animation, martial arts, documentary, fantasy, science fiction, thriller, historical, romance, war, western, police, vampire, etc …

If you were a flower, which one would you be?

I would have liked to be the lotus!

If you were a love ad, which one would you be?

My ad in one sentence: “I will understand you, support you and support you in all stages of life … I will be there to catch you if you fall”

What did you hope to find on the internet at the beginning?

Can I ask you a question?

So far I may be what you are looking for?

What are your principles in a relationship?

Are you the dominant or docile male type?

Do you sometimes have one-night stands?

What is your clothing style?

Are you the T-shirt or polo shirt type?

What perfume do you wear?

Let’s say friends come to visit you and you haven’t cooked what do you do?

What is your daily means of transportation?

What is your favorite part of your home?

If you were to be given a gift, what would it be?

Have you ever been disappointed in love?

Yes, but it takes a long time to explain and it’s also distressing so I don’t want to talk about it too much
There are people who have hurt me… even suffered a lot but I’m not looking for revenge because I leave that to life and I know that it will do what is right. I prefer now to live in peace and ignore them because it is more important to focus on real values and especially take time for the people we love and who love us
I hope you understand me

Do you have a pet?

What is the most attractive part of you?

Do you have tattoos, piercings?

Do you like to play the gentleman or be pampered like a baby?

Favorite sports brand?

Favorite TV show?

What color are your eyes?

What are your religions?

Preferences in cooking?

Can the lack of maturity in your soulmate be a problem between you?

Are you the lazy or the fighter type in life?

We can play a little game if you want!

A question and answer game, but you have to answer with all sincerity…

For example, if you come home from work and find your house on fire, and inside are your mother and your wife, and you are asked to make a choice, which one will you make?

Do you sometimes do good deeds, like charity, donations, etc.?

Since you are single, I suppose you devote yourself to household chores and suppose that from one day to the next, and you move in with a girl, you will have your old habits or you will let her do it?

Are you more of a city or country person?

What are your political opinions?

Preferences in literature?

you know I’m looking for a man who would love me for who I am because I want to love a man for who he is and not for what he has you know in life I’ve always had something in mind that the real luxury is to have a happy family.

and I would so much like to find this man who would fill this empty instrument that is in me that we call love a sincere love you know in life even if you are beautiful and you do not have a good heart I think that your beauty will be useless you understand me

I am told beautiful but I would like to seduce a man with my heart more than my beauty well true beauty counts but the heart is the most important and I think that if you love someone for what he/she has I think that the relationship will not last .. and when we want to love we must love and that does not look at the other but looks in the same direction

I know that it would be difficult for you to understand me or to believe me but it is the truth what I tell you I am beautiful perhaps but know that I am even more beautiful inside me and it is on that that I count to have the man of my life you know self-confidence is the first secret of success ……

and I have confidence in myself in my characters that I have that I could have a man to live with him for eternity and for life even if this man is the poorest in the world even if he cannot give me children and know how to feed this family is the essential.

because even if there are problems it must be resolved between the two of you and each should not go their separate ways because the couple will no longer be okay but on the contrary you must sit down, discuss, wait to resume the life of the couple together and I think that if it is like that the couple would be even stronger you know there can be infidelity but in love you have to know how to forgive

But I do not think that a man from 30 to 70 years old can still be unfaithful in any case if he is aware if he knows that marriage is not a simple thing because you should not go and swear love fidelity and everything and then you screw the kids I think that it is not good the woman is made for the man it is true and the man is also made for the woman so I think that if you have your man take care of him and you have to know how to satisfy him each day that passes prove that you love him and when it is like that the couple will last in life everything is a question of luck it is like a game so you have to know how to take things in hand and never lose hope that one day you will find the man who will awaken your senses the one who burns your future in his eyes I am not a poet or an imaginative writer but what I am telling you comes from my heart I think you are perhaps asking yourself why I am always alone and well.. you are right to think so but that is life I have known men in whom I have given all my trust but they have all disappointed me.

That is why I decided to forget everything and now take life in hand whatever your situation tell yourself that one day you will find what you want in life because our dreams are us who make them come true and we must not sit down that they will come true alone but we must fight to make our dream come true I hope you understand me.

I have everything to have a man I have everything to have a luxury that is to say cars villas but that does not interest me the luxury that I want is to have a happy family I would be ready to live with a man whether it is in health or illness wealth or poverty whether it is any ordeal me Solange I would be ready to live with this man to love him until the end of my days and I would not do that for a year.
but for eternity and for life.

You know I am here on the net I know why because I tell myself that love is everywhere we are and I keep hope of finding a man that I would know and if we like each other I think that he will come and get me or that I will go to his place because for me when we love we want and when we want we can do anything to get it so I believe in love in these incredible things that it creates because it is sacred to me.

because there is nothing more beautiful than loving when you are loved it is very true love is the most beautiful of things but also the worst of things when you are betrayed there you know a little more about my life and I hope to get to know you and who knows because if chance made us meet I think we must wait for time to do for it too

I Love You My Heart

I am looking above all for a man who is respectful towards his wife, who has a good character (not changeable, …), who has personality, likes to take initiatives, responsible, who has a lot of heart the physical has a little importance, there must be a minimum of attraction otherwise it can not stick

My “search” would ideally be to meet a person with whom I could share cinema, restaurants, sports, walks, aperitifs …, at first. So that we can later share a night, a weekend, a month, a year, and why not a child … !!!!!

I’LL SAY A LITTLE MORE ABOUT MYSELF:
I’m nice, but a little wary because I’ve had quite a few disappointments despite everything. I’ve been disappointed by some relationships that didn’t work out (and by the men I’ve lived with); recently, a man claimed to tell me that he liked me, gave me a lot of compliments, and in fact it was just blah blah…
I’m also discreet, quite whole, flexible at the same time (morally and physically), I’m for saying things
I read a lot, I like nature walks, seeing my friends, I like swimming; I also spend time at home

WHAT I NEED RIGHT NOW:

What I need right now is the presence of a man who pleases me and that I please him, and then + if the relationship becomes serious I need to love and be loved because for me love is the best thing in the world

WHAT I LIKE IN A MAN:

Physically I appreciate the eyes, an expressive look that can say a lot sometimes, the torso and the legs; I like to be surprised, that he likes to communicate a lot with me, that we establish a relationship of trust under respect I like a man who knows how to take care of the woman.

I would like to share various things in life, that we go together to nice places, that we discover lots of things, and that we learn to discover each other better to love each other better

MY FAULTS AND MY QUALITIES:
Let’s be honest I won’t tell you that I have all these qualities, but quite a few of them; I don’t do what I wouldn’t like to be done to me; I don’t order my partner to do such things; and I can’t stand verbal mistreatment I’m always late, I can be boring, I’m manic and difficult, I put myself in impossible situations and if someone dares to touch one of my pairs of shoes I scream, I’m an inveterate complainer. But … I am patient, I have a sense of humor, I have a gift for organization, I am positive, I know how to have fun, I am tolerant, I like to work, cook, love and adore …
I am suspicious and in no hurry if you ask me out after three messages, don’t be surprised if I don’t answer
(I tend to be impulsive and rational, I like frankness, discussion, the search for the happiness of the man I love, tenderness, cuddling, living for the one I love and making him happy.

MY OPINION ON MARRIAGE:

well it’s a good question but I think it’s coming a little sooner but hey it’s also good to think about it but you know I think we still have a lot to say to each other here and in front of each other.
so to answer your question it’s a very beautiful thing, every woman my age dreams of getting married but I first want things to work out between us apart from the fact that you’re a nice man I would also like to love and be loved I’m not in a hurry as I told you I want to take the time to do things right, I’m coming back from hell for me and it’s not easy for me especially what I would like is to not live the past again so there you go I’m not in a hurry but I never said that I wouldn’t want to get married far from that I’m a normal person don’t worry I first want things to work out between us there you go.
MY KIND OF MAN:
My kind of man looks like and strangely by the qualities that you described about yourself but for me what remains always important is the loyalty of the heart the physical has always had little importance for me I prefer a man of heart who knows the value of the woman you understand me I hope?

MY SEARCH ON THE NET:

My “search” would be ideally to meet a person with whom I could share cinema, restaurants, sports, walks, aperitifs, lounging …, at first. So that we can then share a night, a weekend, a month, a year, and why not a child…!!!!!

I’LL SAY A LITTLE MORE ABOUT MYSELF:

I’m nice, but a little wary because I’ve had quite a few disappointments despite everything. I’ve been disappointed by some relationships that didn’t work out (and by the men I’ve lived with); recently, a man claimed to tell me that he liked me, gave me a lot of compliments, and in fact it was just blah blah…

I’m also discreet, quite whole, flexible at the same time (morally and physically), I’m to say things
I read a lot, I like nature walks, seeing my friends, I like swimming; I also spend time at home.

WHAT I NEED RIGHT NOW:

MY FAULTS AND MY QUALITIES:
Let’s be honest I won’t tell you that I have all these qualities, but quite a few of them;
I am suspicious and in no hurry if you ask me out after three messages don’t be surprised if I don’t answer
(I tend to be impulsive and rational, I like frankness, discussion, the search for the happiness of the man I love, tenderness, cuddles, living for the one I love and making him happy.

MY OPINION ON MARRIAGE:

well it’s a good question but I think it’s coming a little sooner but hey it’s also good to think about it but you know I think we still have a lot to say to each other here as in front of each other.
so to answer your question it’s a very beautiful thing, every woman my age dreams of getting married but I first want things to work out between us apart from the fact that you are a nice man I would also like to love and be loved I’m in no hurry as I told you I want to take the time to do things right, I’m coming back from hell for me and it’s not easy for me especially what I would like is to not live again for the past so here I am in no hurry but I never said that I wouldn’t want to get married far from that I am a normal person don’t worry I want first that things work between us here.
MY KIND OF MAN:
my kind of man looks like and strangely by the qualities that you described of yourself but for me what remains always important is the fidelity of the heart the physical has always had little importance for me I prefer a man of heart who knows the value of the woman you understand me I hope?

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